
I have thought a lot about managing expectations of late. Of course, there has been a bit of frustration over them.
Managing expectations is an enormous part of life. I feel the need to manage expectations of parents, students and colleagues as a teacher. There are expectations of us at work. Our families expect a lot from us. Of course, we expect a lot from ourselves.
Managing expectations is a lot like playing in an orchestra. There must be open communication among its members. One must set realistic goals, and not over-promise. And of course, there must be flexibility.
Enjoy this sonnet.
Orchestra plays, a non-harmonic blend
The audience cringes, faces sallow
The melody comes, in pain, to an end
The final note sounding hallow
Its members heads turn about
Looking for a cue
Seeking for a guiding shout
As to what to do
To render the tune melodic
The players must make it certain
Song starts to flow, notes specific
In a harmonic pattern
Members know that they must play
A song elegant and tuneful
But they never over-said the way
That they will turn soulful
In fluid motion, the instruments blend
To bring the song to fulfilling end.